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7. It Doesn’t Have to Be Linear: Building a Flexible, Integrated Healing Plan
Healing from trauma isn’t a step-by-step process. It’s layered, messy, and deeply personal. This week, we explore how an integrative model—combining KAP, EFT, EMDR, and sex therapy—creates a flexible healing plan that adapts to each client’s nervous system, relationships, and pace.
Sex After Trauma: Relearning Safety, Pleasure, and Connection Trauma-Informed Sex Therapy
For trauma survivors, sex can feel unsafe, confusing, or overwhelming. Trauma-informed sex therapy begins not with techniques, but with safety, body trust, and healing connection.
Rewiring the Past: EMDR and the Power of Memory Reconsolidation
Trauma doesn’t just live in the past—it lives in the body. EMDR therapy helps survivors rewire painful memories, reducing triggers and restoring safety, intimacy, and connection.
Love After Trauma: Rewriting Your Attachment Story
If love feels hard, unpredictable, or emotionally unsafe, you may be experiencing the effects of unresolved attachment wounds. In this post, therapist Amy Wilhelmi, LMFT, explores how Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) helps individuals and couples break reactive cycles and rebuild emotional safety—especially when trauma is in the mix. Learn how EFT, combined with tools like Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy, supports deep relational healing through vulnerability, empathy, and trust.
"I never spend a day disliking what I do. Helping clients level up their mentality is my soul work. I choose to lead by example. How can I expect my clients to make mental gains if i'm staying stuck? You gotta walk the walk if you wanna be effective. Ascension Mentality. "
-Amy Wilhelmi, LMFT
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Journey with Amy in Ascension Mentality as she takes you through a raw and vulnerable walk of unraveling her childhood trauma, navigating her career, marriage and parenthood. She takes you on a deep dive into her life and how when emotions are left unprocessed, they seep into adulthood as she tries to navigate the task of growing up.
This Mental Fortitude journal is your first step to stepping out from behind the screen of Apathy towards your Awakening. With every question, you learn more about who you really are. As you identify the stages and unravel your trauma, you identify what you love about yourself and learn to focus on what is important, becoming whole. You are the one that ultimately decides how your life should go. Your past might be a part of you, but it shouldn’t define the rest of your life.
Learn to live as your true self- AUTHENTICALLY and ABUNDANTLY.