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What Is Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy—and Why Is It a Game Changer for Trauma?

Ketamine isn’t a magic fix—but in the right therapeutic setting, it can help trauma survivors access parts of themselves long buried by fear, dissociation, or shame. In this post, trauma therapist Amy Wilhelmi explores how Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) works, why it’s especially powerful when traditional methods like EMDR hit a wall, and how it opens new pathways to healing.

1. Why Traditional Trauma Therapy Isn’t Enough—And What We Can Do About It

Traditional trauma therapy often separates emotional, relational, and sexual healing—but trauma doesn’t live in compartments. In this post, Amy Wilhelmi, LMFT, explores integrative trauma therapy as a holistic, client-centered approach that weaves together KAP, EMDR, EFT, and trauma-informed sex therapy. Learn why a siloed model isn’t enough—and how deeper healing becomes possible when we treat the whole system.

Turning Fights Into Growth Opportunities in Relationships

Conflict is inevitable in any relationship. No matter how compatible two people are, disagreements will arise. Conflict is a normal and natural part of relationships, whether about daily life routines, finances, or more significant life decisions. What truly matters...

Managing Differences in Sexual Desire: A Guide for Couples

Differences in sexual desire are a common challenge in relationships. Whether one partner has a higher or lower libido than the other, mismatched sexual desires can create tension, frustration, and feelings of rejection if not addressed openly and constructively....

"I never spend a day disliking what I do. Helping clients level up their mentality is my soul work. I choose to lead by example. How can I expect my clients to make mental gains if i'm staying stuck? You gotta walk the walk if you wanna be effective. Ascension Mentality. "
-Amy Wilhelmi, LMFT

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