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LGBTQ+ Clients Deserve More Than “Tolerance”

LGBTQ+ Clients Deserve More Than “Tolerance”

by Amy Wilhelmi | Mar 11, 2026 | Uncategorized

Mental health care has not always been safe for LGBTQ+ individuals. Historically, homosexuality and gender diversity were pathologized within psychological and psychiatric institutions. Conversion therapy practices attempted to alter sexual orientation or gender...
After Infidelity: Rebuilding Trust with EMDR + EFT

After Infidelity: Rebuilding Trust with EMDR + EFT

by Amy Wilhelmi | Feb 9, 2026 | Uncategorized

Infidelity Is a Trauma Event — Not Just a Relationship Problem When infidelity is discovered, the betrayed partner often presents with symptoms consistent with trauma: intrusive thoughts, hypervigilance, sleep disturbance, emotional flooding, and a persistent sense of...
After Infidelity: Rebuilding Trust with EMDR + EFT

Couples on Ketamine: How KAP Deepens EFT Bonding Events

by Amy Wilhelmi | Feb 2, 2026 | Blogging, couples therapy, Emotinally- Focused Therapy, Ketamine- Assisted- Psychotherapy, Sex Therapy, trauma therapy

When Love Isn’t the Problem — Fear Is Couples rarely seek therapy because love is absent. More often, they are trapped in attachment survival patterns shaped by trauma, neglect, or betrayal. Relational trauma alters neural systems responsible for safety and bonding,...
LGBTQ+ Clients Deserve More Than “Tolerance”

When to Use What: Sequencing KAP, EFT, EMDR, and Sex Therapy

by Amy Wilhelmi | Jan 8, 2026 | Uncategorized

An ethical, trauma-informed guide to integrative clinical decision-making The Question Clinicians Rarely Ask Out Loud As integrative trauma work becomes more widely practiced, clinicians increasingly find themselves holding multiple powerful modalities at once. At...
LGBTQ+ Clients Deserve More Than “Tolerance”

Case Study: Eli & Jonah — EMDR for Anxious + Avoidant Love Styles

by Amy Wilhelmi | Nov 14, 2025 | Blogging, couples therapy, Emotinally- Focused Therapy, gender, Ketamine- Assisted- Psychotherapy, Mentality Coaching

When Love Feels Like a Loop Every couple has a rhythm. For some, it’s harmony; for others, it’s a relentless chase. Eli and Jonah, like so many partners I’ve worked with, lived in that loop of anxious pursuit and avoidant retreat — a dance choreographed by fear rather...
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